amsterdammer

amsterdammer
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All You Need is AJAX

All You Need is AJAX
All You Need is AJAX

Sabtu, 03 Desember 2011

Let's get married :D

This topic is always brought up whenever my mom and I are alone, like today I was chilling with my Mom in my sister's bedroom.

We were watching old Westlife video on YouTube and she asked me if it was their old song, because they look so young in the video. Then this conversation (more or less) happened

"I'm still young am not I? :D" said I
"Mhm, you're only 19"
"20 in 3 months D:"
"Yeah and you're supposed to have boyfriend when you're 20"
"No Mama, that's haraam"

And so,my mom got the hint that I don't want to have a boyfriend because it's haraam, or in shorter sentence I want to get married. SOON xD

a moment later, my father joined us and this happened :
We were lying on the bed and I was like "Moooooommmm....let's snuggle :D"
She was like"*sigh* You're 19! are you not ashamed?"
to which my father reacted "When will you go back to your old room and sleep by yourself?"

My mom said to him that, I don't wanna sleep alone, but I am too old to sleep with my parents so she suggested the only solution : Married

You know what, I would LOVE to, but this is a serious matter, I'm only 19 and still studying in university... and getting married is not as simple, as joyous, as it looks. Someone said to me, "Marriage is wonderful on the first three days, the 4th day, you woke up to someone on your right that you have to feed until death." He was joking, obviously....

But I think he made a point right there, to not getting married until you are ready mentally and FINANCIALLY.

I am very careful about this, this is not the first time I've ever thought about marriage in such young age. Now I'm trying to prepare for anything, that will be important once I found the right person..... Wish me luck :D


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